The surprising connection between dogs and romance
Feb 04, 2025 11:14AM ● By Marti Benson
We all know the health benefits of having a dog, but did you know that our canine companions can have a profound effect on our romantic relationships as well? If you’re looking for love, look no further than the end of a leash.
Rover.com published a report called “The Anatomy of Dog Love.” While the study details the long-standing affection between dogs and their humans, it also explores how our four-legged friends can influence our love lives.
The study surveyed over 1,500 U.S. dog owners about their relationships with both their partners and their pooches. Among those already in relationships:
• 56% felt they spent more time with their partner after getting a dog
• 71% felt more attracted to their significant other after watching him or her care for their pet
Even though I didn’t take the survey, I couldn’t agree more with the findings. After adopting Oakley last April, my husband Kyle and I have spent at least three extra hours together each day, corralling our new pup and attempting to pry inedible objects from his mouth.
“He’s got one of your dahlias!” Kyle would shout. “I’ll get him from this side.”
“Got it,” I’d say, as I rounded the patio furniture.
“He grabbed your boxers and is headed upstairs,” I’d yell.
“Roger that. I’ll head him off at the top of the stairs!”
At the end of the day, we’re exhausted—and thanks to Oakley— we’re fast asleep the moment our heads hit the pillows.
As for being more smitten with my husband as he attends to Oakley? Well, that goes without saying. Watching Kyle spring from bed at 3 a.m. to rush Oakley outside when he’s feeling sick, my love for him increases tenfold. Bonus points when it’s a freezing winter night.
A heads-up to people who are single: prospective dates dig dogs! According to the survey, 72% of respondents said they’re more likely to “swipe right” (or click on your profile) on someone whose dating profile includes a photo with their dog.
And as we approach Valentine’s Day, it’s clear the holiday isn’t just about romance anymore. Survey respondents shared how they’re celebrating:
• 62% will buy a gift for their dog
• 25% plan to take their pupper on a date
• 1 out of 3 will spend the same amount of money on their dog as they do on their human partner
For me and Kyle, Oakley is a big part of our relationship. While we won’t be taking him to dinner or a movie, he will get extra Milkbones and a hike on his favorite trail.
And Kyle and I will certainly give each other Valentine’s Day cards. Naturally, they will be dog-themed, with either an image of some furry, cute, big-eared waif or a sentiment like “Doggone it, I love you” or “You are paws-itively the best.”
Puppy love indeed.